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I don’t think love is always a huge, cataclysmal emotional event. I think sometimes it sits in front of you for a very long time until you glance over and say, oh, there you are. I don’t think it’s your saving grace. I think it’s the hand that you hold while you save yourself. I don’t think it’s someone who sweeps you off your feet. I think it’s someone who stays right beside you and lets you walk on your own. I don’t think it’s always a blazing but temporary insanity of racing hearts and hormones. I think that’s the love that changes us. The love that should stay with us is the calm, deep, thorough knowing that you want to be with someone despite logical objections. And what may be even more important than anything is that I think you find your own love at the very edges of where other people’s love pushes you.

(via naughtynicesugarspice)

(Source: theperksofbeingtiffany)

Side Nigga Playlist:


  1. Pleasure P- Boyfriend #2
  2. Blackstreet- Don’t Leave Me
  3. T.I- Why You Wanna
  4. Ginuwine- None Of Ur Friends Business
  5. Cassidy- Hotel
  6. Chingy- One Call Away
  7. Drake- Hate Sleeping Alone
  8. Jon B- They Don’t Know
  9. Mario- How Do I Breathe
  10. Pretty Ricky- Hotline
  11. Carl Thomas- I Wish


public service announcement: just because ole girl got in a 22 inch malaysian sew in doesn’t mean she loves herself any less than baby girl with the afro puffs